A Guest Post: Whitney Darling, 'Encouragement On The Topic Of Struggle'
(^^A photo taken years ago when I first met the talented Whitney Darling, i thought it was only fitting to share^^)
Oh today i have something special for you, a guest post by someone I truly admire, someone i've only met once in person but have followed along on her journey somehow via social media for several years now. We both share friends in common, grew up in South Orange County, have two new babies both a boy and a girl, and most similarly have a calling on our hearts to share our story and be a "vessel of Gods light". She is an incredibly gifted woman, she has a way with her words and expressing her heart so openly and beautifully, and my oh my you should see life through her eyes with the photos she takes! Miss Whitney is a photo journalist but so much more than that. I frequently see her status updates on my feed and am always amazed at what God is sharing through her each week. Yesterday I came across a post of hers on her blog and was so moved by those necessary words i read, that i asked her if i could share it here in this special space and place of mine. So today i'm pleased to share Whitney Darling with you all.
Her beautiful message of "Encouragement On The Topic Of Struggle":
"It is the struggle in life that often renders me powerless enough for
long enough to make sincere space (in my otherwise egocentric mind) for
God.
I wish I could say that without toil I glorify God, that in all
things good and perfect, say a lush garden or a sensitive moment, that
my born instinct is to turn t0 God and be overwhelmed with thanksgiving.
I wish it was my instinct to not feel good owed to me. To always recognize grace and beauty as a gift. To glorify someone who deserves
glory. I wish it was my instinct to choose faithfulness to my creator.
But as the book tells it: centuries of waywardness and deception has
allowed for me to be a woman who is genetically predisposed to choosing
myself over everything and everyone else. I am hardwired to wander from
rightness.
The most basic strand of pride has created an ugly pattern in me. If I
go long enough without struggling, I begin to overlook the face and
works of God.
Oddly enough, even with all of the astonishing beauty and miraculous
good in the world, maybe I could somehow still explain it all away.
Maybe without struggle, without need, I wouldn’t have enough depth to
reach for God. Maybe without struggle, I wouldn’t hope in his ability OR
simply believe in his existence.
It is not until desperation that the temporary God I’ve made of
myself crumbles. It is not until prostrate on the floor beating my fists
in disbelief or frustration or downright anger, or maybe in the fetal
position rocking my wounded self to pseudo-consolation, that I die to a
role I was never meant to carry.
I truly believe that God is good, and that he wishes we would just
choose to dwell with him. To be right with him. I believe he wishes that
we would just choose to see clearly what he has made clear to see. That
he is God and we are not. But I also believe that his graceful nature
allows him to understand. It is a wonder he hasn’t given up on us. It is
a wonder he sees the struggles we’ve bound ourselves to, and uses them
for betterment. How gorgeous that he allows the struggles, or the
deceptions from Satan, and the adulterousness of our choosing them, to
again lead us back to him. What love.
I’ve often wondered why God would even allow for Satan to rule the
Earth. Great, God rules heaven. Great, Satan rules hell. But why is the
land we are born on subject to both evil and good? As I’ve experienced
the sorrow of a chronically ill baby, as I’ve endured the breathlessness
of witnessing my dad dead on the bed in front of me at a tender nine
years old, as I’ve drown in the pit of my stomach walking into a room
where my (then) boyfriend and dear friend we’re having sex… as I myself, confusingly enough, have chosen to hurt people I love…
the answer has been made more lucid.
What I’ve come to thus far is this:
It is the need that draws us in. It is the brokenness that sobers us up. It is the horridness of the devil that will lead us to recognize the goodness of God.
But my LORD, pain is pain. And, in the moment, of course it’s not just a hypothetical tool for redemption. It is pain.
And it doesn’t feel right to grieve the loss of comfort, or to gasp in
the anguish of loss, or to grapple with the unresolved whys.
Some moments and some days, it is utterly and wholly crushing to breath.
And some of the other days, it is absolutely and emphatically beautiful to be alive.
But for those who may be in the midst of the struggle: It is your
struggle that will allow you to humble up (yes, even more) and meet
God’s powerfulness.
Because, struggle, for me, is where God has not yet been made King.
And struggle, for me, is the sign of an unresolved/unfinished life.
Struggle is symptomatic of need. And need hurts. And dear God, no one
wants to hurt forever.
It is the unsatisfied struggler that will finally stop looking for
answers within, who will die to their own self-crowned-King, and call
for the true God, and in enough time, when his truth is revealed in way
that is finally understood, it is the struggle that will allow us to
know for ourselves what we would otherwise reject:
Only God is good.
(Praying for you who stumble here, that you would be bound up by his
grace over all things in your life. And that you would be made whole
this morning, even in the midst of your own powerlessness, as you begin
to recognize and gladly NEED more of his presence.)"
The Lord spoke and she listened. I had to share this because I know so many of us need encouragement in times of struggle when we are in the midst of a horrific storm. I hope this message spoke to you. And a big thank you to Whitney for allowing me to share her message of encouragement today.
You can see her work here, and read more about her & her story here.
XO
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^^^ill be sharing about these adorable bows next^^^
