One of our basic needs as human beings is security. Most of us will do almost anything to feel secure. Security can be financial, physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual. Think about it..whatever goals you have set out for in life, the underlying motivation for most aspirations is security. Whether we want a big home or a fancy car, or simply basic needs that can fit into a small back pack, or one day having a big family, or even no kids, deep down within us is the need for our lives to not go to "crap". Yes, everyone's idea of a "crappy" life is different, but we all long for security to have and keep the things we think we need and want.
A lot of us are determined to find security. Whatever it looks like or however we think we can get there. For some this may come in the knowledge of having a place to call home, or having someone to care for them all the days of their life, loving them and committing to them for forever through "marriage". The problem is, eventually our money, possessions, knowledge, and relationships fail or will be gone. Houses can burn down, children drift away from their parents, marriages may fail, people pass away, and some may loose their jobs, generally far too many things are not in our control and can come along and wreck those things we once found all of our sense of "security" in.
We eventually learn to not place our security in things or in people. Only God can give us lasting security. What have you, yourself trust in for security? And how long lasting is it? How many times do we need to feel like everything is taken from us, like we are doomed to death without the one thing we thought we had security in? When it is gone, stolen, and you feel robbed in life, then what?
My answer is, it is there where we find Jesus. He is our only constant. He is our rock. He never leaves our side, He is always with us. We cannot say that about our parents, they will die one day and we will be left without them. We cannot say that about our spouse, they too will pass away, let us down, hurt us, or leave us. Our children grow up and move out and begin their own families. We all age and lose our physical "beauty" that some us may use as our security, the one thing we've always had and always leaned on. Money, cars, houses, clothes, pets, belongings..all can be taken away. Jesus is still here. He always is, and was.
"What he trusts in is fragile; what he relies on is a spider's web. He leans on his web, but it gives way; he clings to it, but it does not hold up" - This scripture from the book of Job demonstrates a beautiful picture we can think back to in those moments when we question putting our trust, faith, and security in things, belongings, and in people. This can be a reminder to look to God, the only One who is not too fragile to lean into.